The Life and Times of Jim |
Hi, there. I'm Jim. Welcome to my phlog! This site was written for Las Vegas, then LouisVille. Now, it seems to be about anywhere. In these phlogs, you'll see a lot of my personal notes and pictures. I like to post my observations here to remember life and celebrate it. I'm not religious. I don't pray for good fortune. I'm ecstatically grateful for the gift of life and I think our time should be remembered and not taken for granted. I'm not a writer. I think pictures tell stories so much better than words. I love just about everything in this life, and, I guess that would have to include you. So, if you've seen me, don't be surprised if your picture is in here somewhere. Of all the critters, people are absolutely the most interesting. |
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06/01/2009 20:07:14 jim Brusters Ice Cream... | Mon |||||||||||||||||||
06/01/2009 20:03:40 jim Allegheny | Mon |||||||||||||||||||
One of the things that really fascinates me about West Allegheny is that it has the second best view of downtown Pittsburgh, and the buildings are falling apart. I'm surprised the wealthy people haven't discovered its vista and rebuilt this area into something very spectacular. I saw people sitting two couches suited for the dump, houses falling apart, and the only business seemed to be a place to buy lottery tickets. |
06/01/2009 18:57:38 jim Allegheny Tavern | Mon |||||||||||||||||||
05/27/2009 09:56:38 jim Life in the Jungle | Wed |||||||||||||||||||
05/25/2009 12:01:04 jim Cleveland, Oh - Rib Cookoff | Mon |||||||||||||||||||
05/25/2009 08:49:16 jim Cleveland-Statues | Mon |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 21:59:58 jim Cleveland - Walking Around | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 21:38:38 jim Cleveland - Vampires | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 20:54:50 jim Cleveland, Oh - City | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 19:54:16 jim Cleveland - 4th Street | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
Once again, 4th Street "Live" is the place to be. We stayed at a Holiday Inn Express in downtown Cleveland (off of Euclid and 4th Street). I thought it might be a good place to hang because there was a House of Blues near it.
The hotel, ahhhh, it was old, stylish, and classy. Our room was larger than our apartment. It had a jaccussi bathtub and a very comfortable bed. Right down the block, on 4th Street, there were maybe six bars. Curiously, and sadly, they were all sports bars, so Becky and I didn't do any dancing (in public that is). We dance a lot, but nobody, and I mean nobody, wants to see us. |
05/24/2009 19:46:04 jim Cleveland LakeErie Dock | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 19:21:08 jim Cleveland - Edgewater Park | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
This guy just couldn't get it up. He tried and tried. I asked him if I could give him a hand. He said, "Can you cut this grass". I've changed my mind about wanting a paraglider. Everywhere I see one of these (San Diego, Seattle, Cleveland), people seem to be struggling to launch. I think I'll just save my $2,500 and buy a $2 kite. |
05/24/2009 14:48:12 jim Cranberry Ichiban | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
05/24/2009 05:51:42 jim The rules for contractors | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
- If you have a S-Corp, go 1099. You'll have more write offs and will pay almost half in taxes. - If you can go W4 and you live out of state, get your contract amended to include Per Diem as part of your wage. Never fall in love with a contract. Outsiders usually know whats going on inside your company before you do. Insiders may know whats going, but will be reluctant to talk about it. Reviewing Monster and Dice will tell you a lot (query your position and area). Company websites often tell you a lot. In this information age, truth can be extrapolated from bits and pieces collected through various resources. In most cases, contractors are frowned upon It looks like they draw more income, which isn't true. Full Timers and Salaried Workers may do better than Consulants, even though they make less. Judging income by looking at hourly wage is a bit bone headed. A full timer at $30 an hour may end up doing better than a contractor at $40 an hour. - In most cases, contractors usually don't get paid a vacaton, sick days, employer matched 401k's, and worst of all group health insurance - 1099 Contractors pay full state taxes, FICA, health insurance (if they can get it) and may have to pay unemployment insurance and workmans compensation. - The big perk for being an hourly contractor is, you get paid for every hour you work. Salaried employees often work 60+ hours a week, uncompensated. I think in general, if you are a programmer, there are no stable positions. Unless you move up the ladder, you are expendable. Since outsourcing became popular in the 90's, both salaried employees and consultants have become major targets of budget cuts. - I've seen situations where almost all of the salaried programmers were laid off, and the contractors were kept. - I've seen situations where an entire floor of an apartment building was rented to house foreign contractors for an all expense paid contract. These foreign contractors make far less in wages. Often, they send most of what they make back to their families. Its almost impossible for natives to compete with that. However, with the rise of foreign contractors, comes the rise of communication failures. I believe Business Analyst have become popular for that reason. For these reasons, with management overloading, what used to take a week to impliment, may now take 6 months. Plus, unlike 10 years ago, when I had one boss, I now have many. It is important to maintain a network of contacts Whether salaried, full time, or contracting, everybody is subject to the ax. In the end, maybe half of the people I've known end up on the street. The best thing you can do to remain stable is to find a niche. I think that in the struggle for management to quantify what programmers do - the cost has been dead paperwork - documention that no one looks at - meetings that sometimes involve over 100 people most of which don't have a clue about what is going on - Constant updates of your status - Paranoid procedures have been developed. Often, security procedures are created by people who do know the application. The following is a good story to share. I made an error, or so it would seem. I wasn't allowed to see productions configuration until implementation day. Its configuration was different than our test system. I could have fixed the configuration in one minute, but instead, I had to back my programs out and do a workaround. That took 3 months. I got a black eye for that, but I don't blame myself. I blame poorly designed management procedures and horrible security implementations. To much management means slower responses. Too much security may mean months of red tape to cut through. |
05/23/2009 10:04:58 jim Ground Hog Day at the Apartment | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
05/22/2009 06:41:01 jim Another wonderful day in Pittsburgh | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
It looks like another wonderful day in Pittsburgh. I can't begin to describe my feelings. I wake up in the morning and a cardinal is peeping at my door. I toss it some peanuts. Then out comes Scats, our friendly chipmunk, who fills up his ever expanding cheeks with peanut morsels. Life is everywhere and it seems boundless. From critters the size of a speck, to the bounding deer traversing the mountain slopes, it's incredible. My contract should end in September. And when I go, all my memories of this place, and its beautiful people, will be frozen in a place where there's no space, and no time. So if you catch me sometime, looking at nothing with a smile on my face, that is where I'll be. These last few years have been the best of my life. I want to leave this life happy, in my sleep like my Grandfather, and not like the other people in his car yelling and screaming. |
05/20/2009 18:27:02 jim North Park Hikers | Wed |||||||||||||||||||
We met John and Bret at the Nature Center where we talked about guns, ghost, UFO's, 2012, and all sorts of things like that. We laughed about it. I told him I'd been looking for ghosts and UFO's all of my life, and have seen nothing, except for what is in my mind. But I told him if I did see a ghost, I would not be afraid of it because, if it killed me I'd be a ghost. Then I could kick its butt! Sounds logical...haha.
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05/20/2009 17:40:04 jim NorthPark Picnic | Wed |||||||||||||||||||
05/19/2009 21:31:20 jim Homestead Stacks | Tue |||||||||||||||||||
05/19/2009 18:45:06 jim Homestead Speckled Robin | Tue |||||||||||||||||||
05/19/2009 18:21:04 jim Red-Hot-N-Blue | Tue |||||||||||||||||||
05/17/2009 13:20:10 jim Beautiful Words | Sun |||||||||||||||||||
While creating a log called Obits, I came across a letter that is very special. This letter was written by my Mom after my Grandfather died. Good Night, Dad. This message will live in my heart forever. Thank you, dear God, for my father and for those words Dad never failed to speak each night - to me. "I love you with all of my heart. I want us to live together for the good of each other and to work together in peace. And when I get too old to take care of myself I want you to take care of me". On his last night, Dad smiled, always a sweet smile, and said "I hate to let you go" (holding my hand) And he let go and smiled again, and left. My Mom was a beautiful person. I remember leaving her hours before she passed on. I kissed her, told her I loved her so much. She waved at me with one of those red, glowing sensors on her finger and smiled so big. I never thought she was going to die in her sleep hours later. My wife (Ruth) and I had prepared a room for her at my house, for when she got out. Mom seemed to get around just fine. But I was so busy in those days. I had to reinstall almost all of the applications at Caesars that month. Maybe I saw, but I didn't notice that my Mom, my best friend in this life, was slipping away. Mom died 10 years to the day, after her husband (Dave Leblanc) died. Dave, Mom, and my Grandfather died just before their insurance ran out. Dave was my step-dad, and what a great guy he was. Almost all of the people I loved from that period are gone now. Only my brother and I are left to honor their memories. |
05/16/2009 09:33:18 jim Wexford Rain | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
05/15/2009 21:14:42 jim Ruth Kelley (8/29/61 - 5/15/09) | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
Ruth Kelly (Aka: Ruth Tatum, Ruth Cutlar, Ruth Fortenberry) passed away from cancer on May 15th, 2009, 9:17 PM in Forest, Mississippi. She was diagnosed with stage four cancer (very fatal) in 2007 by doctors in Mississippi. Ruth started chemo therapy, but quickly discontinued it. She believed the cancer went into remission through prayer. It resufaced a few weeks ago after doctors did a biopsy on a lump in her back. I can't say and I'll never know for sure, but her family thinks the biopsy caused her cancer to turn malignant again. I met Ruth in 1989. She was a clerk at the Rebel Station on Nellis and Boulder Hwy in Las Vegas. Ruth had moved in with my best friend (Chris Fahey) who lived in a trailer at Pueblo Del Sol (which Chris had bought from my step-brother, Terry Leblanc). Later, she rented a room from me, at my house at Gabriel. We were together for 11 years. Together, Ruth and I toured San Diego, San Francisco, California, Oregon, Washington, Idaho, Utah and Nevada in a travel trailer. We visited Otis Kelley (deceased), and the rest of her family in Forest, Mississippi in 1998. At one time or another, most of her family had stayed with us at our Gabriel house in Las Vegas. Our guests were: Ruth Lambert, mother, Forest, Ms; Jim Lambert, stepdad, deceased; John Kelly, brother, deceased; Tex Lambert, brother, deceased; Charles Kelley, brother, Forest, Ms; Sandy Kelley, sister, Forest, Ms. We shared many close friends: Rob Allred, deceased; Chris Fahey, deceased; Allen Harmon, deceased; Darla Richards, Las Vegas; and my Mom, Ruth Leblanc, deceased. We bought a Summerlin house in 1996, and formed Cutlar Enterprises in 1997. We were married from 9/9/90 to 1/11/01. In that time, we raised 3 miniture poodles (Muffin, Little Girl, and Little Man), and saved many helpless birds. Our divorce was amical and with my blessing, Ruth remarried Ricky Fortenberry (an old high school sweetheart) in 2001. I found my new love, Becky Ruth Spurling, that same year. Becky, ironically, lived in Pueblo Del Sol. Becky and I visited Ruth and Ricky in 2005, when we stayed with her brother Charles for a week. Ruth had finally gotten the Mustang Convertable of her dreams in 2004. I bought a Mustang Convertable for Becky, in 2006. |
05/15/2009 20:58:40 jim Rochester Inn | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
05/15/2009 19:33:50 jim Pittsburgh Walkin | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
05/15/2009 18:11:48 jim Downtown Pittsburgh | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
05/15/2009 14:49:16 jim the American Dream - Property Decisions? | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
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05/09/2009 08:10:05 jim Mothers Day came early this Year | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
I sent some flowers to Ruth (my ex-wife) in Mississippi. She's not going to survive much longer -gbhs. While I was on FTDs website, I thought we'd send some flowers to Becky's Mom (Gma). Well, I got a call from the Mississippi FTP florist, who jokingly said in a strong Mississippi accent "I would love to travel to Las Vegas to deliver these flowers, but can you afford it?". I said "I thought FTD employed a naked guy with wings on its head and feet to deliver flowers". I cancelled the order. Meanwhile, I got a call from a friend who is in a Asia. He called saying "Jiiiim, Heeeeeelp.". I can't resist that. In all of the excitement, he left his credit card in an ATM, and was stranded with just the money he had in his pocket. I took the morning off and wired him some money. I didn't have time to replace the flower order though. Becky went on to finish what I/we started earlier...getting some flowers for GMa. Later that day, while at the store getting some sliced ham (half of which I ate in the checkout line), I'd realized I'd made a BIG mistake. I'd gotten flowers for my ex, and we'd gotten flowers for Becky's Mom, but I'd overlooked the most important person in my life...Miss BECKY. Now this is really wild, I bought her some Starlight Lillies, a little Koala Bear, and a nice Oh, Becky got some new gradient transitional lensed glasses. They were the best lenses available from Walmart, and I realized I would be taking a gamble (it would probably be the first time Becky had ever seen me clearly). I worried about having to explain to her that my hair wasn't really fuzzy. She cried when I bought them. hmmm. Coming home, I decided to take I76 to I79, but I76 didn't have an exit for I79. Matter of fact, it didn't have any exits for 30 miles so we decided to go to Cleveland. But I had second thoughts when I realized I had YooHoo from an exploding can all over me. I was so sticky. Instead we went to Beaver Falls, which is a wasteland of dead mills and factories. From there, we went on to Richland, which consists half of mansions, golf courses, and elegant cemetaries and the other half abandoned houses, shops and greenhouses. We stopped at this little pub name "Tilts". I'd heard about their bands from a guy at work. The bartender was almost impolite at first (we were outsiders), but after a few small conversations, she warmed up and started bringing us jumbo shrimp. Becky had the nastiest Slo Gin Fizz on this planet. Being a gentleman, I drank half of it and had the bartender fill it back up with 7-up (what a guy!). And, that's my long, drawn out, over embellished, never ending, run on story with colors , for this week, as I see it. ---yawn |
05/09/2009 03:41:13 jim So, what is reality? | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
Is reality what we experience? If others don't experience what we do, is our perception real or imagined? All of those voices in our head, what are they? Do our dreams tell us what to do in our daily lives? I've seen things that I rarely get a chance to talk about. Because this blog offers mostly my perspective of life, through pictures and words, I feel I can voice freely some of what I've seen. I know that there is much more to this life than I can imagine. I see an intelligent force around me every day. It must be millions, if not billions of years old. And I know that our brain holds the knowledge of how are body was built as well, and this knowledge is denied to our consciousness. I've seen animals that learn to walk much faster than humans after being born. Do they dream about walking before being born? We aren't given the tools to understand reality. Why? I will never know using this brain with its senses. We are severily limited in our thinking. Sometimes I think our brain is like a 20 year old PC. We can't do a lot with it. One person is gifted with math, another is gifted with music, but nobody has it all. Its nice to know others have gifts, and I'm not just talking about people. I'm talking about every living thing I see. Perhaps, nothing I do in this life really matters to anyone here today, including myself, but it will matter millions of years from now. It seems sad that eternity simply can't exist for this brain. Its amazing how much this body has changed forms since I was born. It makes sense to me that I've been here, changing and having many different forms for a very long time, long before my body and mind existed. It always amazes me that I was once a small fertilized egg. Logic tells me that when I was born, everything in the universe worked its way up to my creation. If everything hadn't happened exactly the way it did, I wouldn't be here. If my Mom hadn't met my Dad, if my grandparents didn't ride a trolley together in New York...and so on, if anything had been different, I wouldn't exist in this form. That seems clear to me. And I believe we die every day. Our skin dies, our memories die, our body is constantly replenishing dead cells with new cells everyday. We host over 30 trillion living cells in our body. Our perspective changes all of the time. We aren't any single thing. We are part of the universe, and we are many. But if someone sees life as being something different than what I see, who am I to say they are wrong. All I have is my perspective on life. I like this article. Almost everyone writes better than I do. Anyway, click here to read something a little more eliquent than what I've wrote. Its comforting to know that after 100s of years, few things that were said today will be remembered. However, everything we do today is part of a chain of events that will create a different kind of future. Everything we did, will matter. |
05/08/2009 18:28:58 jim Richmand-Tilts Pub | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
05/08/2009 16:25:45 jim Beaver Falls | Fri |||||||||||||||||||
05/06/2009 19:48:11 jim Counting the Days | Wed |||||||||||||||||||
I hear rain falling. Cars are treading their way through the flooded roadways. It takes me back to a timeless place in my mind and its a good feeling. I feel young again. A friend has layed down for her last time. She's counting the hours. All of the old times in our past, the partying with the gang, picking each other up from the floor and falling down again, us laughing at ourselves. We had crazy times of constant fun, with never a bad word to say. Almost all of the old gang is gone now. They came and went like an afternoon dream. And I'm left here, listening to the rain fall, remembering with a smile... while counting the days. |
05/02/2009 17:59:22 jim MeadowLands Casino | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
05/02/2009 16:07:20 jim Meadows Race Book | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
05/02/2009 09:01:46 jim Homestead-Lowes Theatres | Sat |||||||||||||||||||
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